Thursday, February 24, 2011

American Girl

Yes, American Girl dolls. My girls are of the age to take very good care and these one-of-a-kind dolls. This is their new hobby. These dolls get dressed every morning and brought to the couch for family scripture study. They are now part of the family.

I'd like you to meet Victoria (my twinn) and Molly in their new pajamas that Aunt Carol hand crafted for them. The quality of these clothes are better than the ones you can order online...from the company!

We are so lucky to have her next door! My girls love to go over to her house (several times a day) to have their dolls try on new outfits...
go in for "fittings"...
get their hair brushed and styled...

Yes, Aunt Carol is too good to my girls...and their dolls.

Today...

We slept in again today. It's okay because our school is only a 2 minute drive from home. 
Get dressed.
Make beds.
Say prayers.
Read scriptures as a family.
Eat a hot breakfast.
Do 4 heads of hair.
Grab backpack and GO.

We can master our morning routine in about 30 minutes. We like to push our luck.

Garrett was able to stay home this morning while I ran Tori to school and then went to the High School weight room to work-out.
 
The Girl's P.E. teacher stopped me and asked if I would help with teaching the DANCE unit next week. I love doing that sort of thing.

I stopped by our little market on the way home for some milk, bread and fresh tortillas (I'll have to use them for lunch today). Everyone comes home for lunch...everyday. I love it.

Once I got home I fed the baby, tucked Benton into bed (he is sick today), Alex ran off to Aunt Carol's house to get her new American Girl doll clothes that she perfectly hand made, down to the last detail, and sent Garrett off to work.
Another day...another dollar...


And Adalyn is 4 months!!!

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

tractors

This is not an uncommon sight here.

Living in a farming community EVERYONE has a tractor...or 12.

I remember the day that Garrett bought this tractor. He was so excited. We almost drove it to church. Ha.

I love being able to have our farms close to our home. Garrett's favorite thing to do is ride the tractor. He considers it one of his hobbies...and we so happen to get paid for this "hobby."

I love having him come home for lunch on those days that he is working on the farm.  
I am so thankful that my husband loves what he does and waking up to go to work is exciting for him, especially at the beginning of planting a new crop.
Don't get me wrong, farming can be very stressful. We are at the mercy of Mother Nature. But it is also very rewarding.

Watching something grow from a seed to a beautiful piece of fruit is a very cool thing.
I always imagined that I would marry a lawyer or a doctor but I wouldn't have it any other way. I love being able to raise my kids in this farming community where they learn the meaning of HARD WORK. 


Tuesday, February 22, 2011

my maid(s)

I have lived in Mexico for 8 years!  Wow, time flies!!

It is common for every household to have a maid. They are very inexpensive and a dime-a-dozen.

I, however, do not have a maid. In the 8 years that I have lived in this country I have been through 8 different maids. 

I don't consider myself a picky person but I do expect my bathrooms to be scrubbed, not just wiped down. My three year old can do that for heaven's sake!

I have had a few of them caught stealing from me...cutting their hours short...leaving me hanging without notice...asking for advances continually...etc.

I once had a tiny, little maid who couldn't weigh more than 80 lbs. and she would break my ironing board and pull my closet door off it's track EVERY SINGLE time she came to work. I don't know how she did it!!

I figure it is not worth employing someone you cannot completely trust and have to clean up after them because they did a shotie job. So, I do not have a maid.

I know there are some great maids out there, and I have had 2 that I absolutely loved, but they were only temporarily available because they worked for the older women in our community so their loyalty was already established.

I figure my odds were stacked against me so I gave up on the quest looking for that perfect maid.  I don't regret it. My kids are learning responsibility and how to properly clean a bathroom, a mop a floor, put away laundry, etc.

I may not have this "Mexican convenience" but my kids are learning life skills because of it.

Monday, February 21, 2011

Pioneer Home

When our dear Aunt Ernie died the home she lived in was left to the family. We were then given the opportunity to live in it. 
This house is an original pioneer home. It is over 100 years old and still has the original windows, hard wood floors and corner stones.

The home used to have a pitched roof and brick exterior. It was remodeled several decades back and now it has a flat roof and the brick has been stuccoed over. I personally do NOT like the remodel. I would have preferred the original exterior.
We love our home and were able to renovate the interior before moving in. There still is a lot to be done but uncovering those original hard wood floors and restoring them was like Christmas morning. Such a treasure!

I would love to make the house look as it did back when the pioneers first settled in the colonies. So I have future plans to re-pitch the roof and scrape off all the stucco (if that is possible) to expose the original brick. 

I love living in a home with character and a story to go with it. 

This home originally had only two bedrooms (now it has 4) and a family of 9 lived in it!!! Many Hatch's have raised their families in this home and now it is my privilege to do the same. 

Mi Casa es Su Casa.

 BEFORE the remodel...

After the remodel...

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Please...

Beggars are not an unusual sight here in Mexico. We are not completely surrounded by poverty. There are ALL classes combined in our community. Usually someone will come to the door asking for money to help pay medical bills (more times than not they are a hoax), food to eat, clothing for their children or work. 

I have no problem asking them to wash a car or mow a lawn in exchange for pay but usually they want a quick fix. I no longer give out money but will willingly give food or clothing to those in need.

If you have a dog in the yard it usually keeps the beggars away, because most of the Mexican people are fearful of dogs. And it especially works well when you have a very LARGE dog, which we did.

However, our dog (Great Dane) was stolen and only days away from having Great Dane pups. So our security dog could no longer help us out with the beggars. 

Once you give to one beggar they spread the word that your house is a good one to hit and you will get more of them wanting the same things. 

This happened to me yesterday. I had a father and daughter come to the door asking for money. I told them I don't keep money in the house because it is too dangerous, so they asked for food. I have no problem sharing food, so I handed over two valentine cakes. Then the man asked for clothes. Since I don't have a constant bag of "out-grown" clothing by the door I told him to come back later if he wanted clothes, for I would need to sort through closets. I sent them on their way.

Two minutes later I had a nursing baby, and a toddler by my side, in bed, almost asleep for naps when there was another knock at the door. I had to slide out of bed, without awaking the babies, and see who was there. It was the daughter, this time without her father. She asked me for a water bottle so I gave her one and again, sent her on her way. 

I guess the word got out that I say YES so I was visited by 3 more beggars that day! I haven't had a beggar in almost a year and yesterday I got 4!! 

I feel totally taken advantage of! Some of these people make a living out of begging and that is frustrating when they are perfectly capable of working! 

It would be a different story if they were grateful for the things they are given but 9 times out of 10 there is NO Thank You!

I am now saying NO to all beggars unless I feel prompted to help. Hopefully the word will spread amongst them and I will be left alone...for awhile.

Saturday, February 19, 2011

giving birth in Mexico

i started out having my first child in the United States. the next three were born in mexico. having experiernced both i will tell you...hands down...i prefer to deliver in mexico!

this may come as a shock so i will explain. 
everyone i know, who has given birth in Mexico, has delivered a baby within 2 hours upon arrival at the hospital. 
the doctor's are very attentive.
they have state-of-the-art facilities and equipment. the doctors will give you their home number, office, and personal cell phone numbers.

i did have a Frankenstein-like experience with my second child, but that was because I was too new to the country and I didn't do my homework.

With my third and fourth babies I received royal treatment.  I walked into the E.R. and my doctor was paged, along with the anesthesiologist, and the pediatrician.  They all arrived within 25 minutes and they NEVER left my side...not ONCE...until I had a baby in my arms!

My husband has always been able to help with the cutting of the cord and the meds are fantastic! Not too strong...not too weak. Enough to feel the "urge" to push but without the pain. I was even able to shower, by myself, a few hours after giving birth.

You still get your hot meals served to you and nurses checking in on you and baby, but you only have to stay admitted for 24 hours! Then you can go home to relax in your own bed. 

That is, however, if you had a smooth delivery and are not high risk, which thankfully, I am NOT.
viva Mexico!